Sibling Rivalry Doesn’t Have to be a Struggle

80% of children grow up with at least one sibling
One study estimated that siblings may have conflicts up to 8x an hour!¹

A few reasons for sibling rivalry:

• Age gaps between siblings
• Individual temperaments & developmental levels
• Special needs
• Social skills
• Parent conflict-resolution skills/parenting style
• Culture

Tips for parents on navigating sibling rivalry:

• Understand that each child’s needs are different
• Avoid comparing your children
• Stay neutral and fair
• Praise your children when they solve their arguments
• Reward positive behaviors
• Respect your child’s privacy; talk to your kids separately during disagreements
• Set up a family meeting to discuss sibling issues and how children can solve problems on their own
• Help children understand that sibling rivalry is a natural part of growing up
• Model healthy ways to resolve conflict

Though they may not get along all the time, siblings play positive roles in one another’s lives.